The bristles of the brush will not scratch glass, regardless of whether or not you have picked up any sand or grit in the bristles, the pressure exerted is simply not great enough, plus the constant flow of water through the bristles makes scratches harder still to occur.
You are way more likely to scratch glass with an applicator when working trad, grit can become embedded in the applicator sleeve and can remain in constant contact with the glass under greater pressure...and I have yet to see scratches occur in that way either (potentially possible yes, but very unlikely).
The stock of the brush is a different matter, the plastic can get roughed up and grit can easily get embedded in those roughed up area's, use the stock of the brush to rub off some bird poo and you can easily scratch the glass.
If the customer claims it is the bristles of the brush doing the damage, give them the gear and ask them to deliberately scratch the glass with it, and they will not be able to do so.
Actually, I'm thinking of experimenting with rubbing my brush into the garden, getting it covered in dirt and then scrubbing it onto one of my own windows just to see what effect it has (or doesn't have) ditto with some sand and the like
Ian