Graham,
You really annoyed me (and several others by all accounts) when you first came on the forum, I don't think people 'got' you.
When I see you have done a post I just have to click on it to see what you have said thats going to wind people up, I've began to look forward to the replies yout comments generate
Within this thread you are most certainly in the minority....a minority of '1' so far
This is a good thread, I too have had customers who love a natter, who like to share their memories with you.
Some of the old folk have some great tales to tell, and they keep smiling and struggling on in the face of sometimes great hardship.
Ok, there are some you almost pray won't be in when you clean their windows, you'd rather wait for the cheque in the post
I had one gentle old fella who fought in ww2, sometimes he would talk about the war, actually hearing someone describe pulling the trigger on an enemy soldier that gets shot in the face, or machine gunning people just a few yards in front of you, or the temptation you would feel to simply shoot a bunch of the hated SS that had surrendered to you rather than take them as prisoners of war.Or to be talking to a mate and the top of his head disappears. its so morbidly fascinating you don't want him to stop.
This old fella wasn't talking to impress or shock us, he was talking in an almost pleading, but matter of fact way. His eyes would fill with unshed tears, he'd shake his head and then tell us more; Of the fear you felt when your gun jammed, of trying to stab a man to death with your bayonette before he did it to you with his.
All this and more from the pleasant old chap in his flat cap, tending his garden, or sitting at the kichen table with a steaming cuppa and a couple of rich tea biscuits and your eyes as big and round as the saucer your cup is sitting on.
So surreal, he didn't talk about the war often, but once he started you just sat real quiet, scared you would break the spell and bring him back from the past to the present.
Oh no, window cleaning isn't just about the money, you meet so many diverse people, you listen and you learn, there are tales out there waiting to be told, wanting to be told, all you have to do is spare your customers a little time now and then......
Ian