I know what you mean too. My worse crime is coming on here.
As you say all the success is down to her. I have a very successfull market business, but felt a new challenge and fresh money was required. After going through the options of a lot of franchises (some mean't selling the house) she let me settle on wc because it was less disruptive.
So I go each morning with her set biz one up, then go home jump into seperate wc van and off I go.The main thing I get told off for is spending money, and she now class's herself as the breadwinner.
As you know van, ro, poles, signwriting, more poles because you didn't get the right ones, booster pumps, transfer pumps,ibc tanks, pro battery chargers, changes to signwriting, hot system, george, second reel, second varistream and pump,Second heater unit, 10,000 leaflets, ladder stabilizers, van roof rack,etc etcv etc.
And every time, what do you need that for? All you do is spend money.
What I say is. I built biz one into a success by making a lot of mistakes and never being afraid to invest, She forgets that in the early days I spent a fortune and everyone told me I was mad ( what do you need a new van for?).