Thanks for the replies....
Well as we all could expect many different replies....
Now...in future any customer complaints/issues will not be answered until the next working day...this gives me time not to go off half cocked and indignant....whether I am right or wrong.
Handled differently...yes.....previous history of customer should have been taken into account...was she a late payer = no, buggered me around before = no....
What I should have done is just agree to disagree about the gate being locked and just charged her the 10 and then cleaned as 'normal'on the next clean (8 weekly). So for the sake of 10...I have lost future amounts...
In the event that she proves herself less than honest or late with payments then I will raise her price, if she accepts ok, if not pity, good luck in the future.
Now as you can see, I am a little more straight 'thinking' now.
Am I still annoyed about being 'done' = yes but what is the benefit in winding myself up? = none....
Lesson to self.....stop, think....wait, think again...wait until tommorow, act
Thanks for the replies....good to hear another view point.