So on Thursday they raised their offer to £7,000. I quoted the £7295 I from Parker's and stuck to it. The guy countered with his view that Glass's and some other one I can't recall valued it at less so they would offer £7,000. I countered with examples in Autotrader that were similar and higher.
We settled on £7295.00
Then he said the salvage would be Cat-S and £1,600 if I wanted it and at the end of the repairs it would need to pass an MOT before it could be reinsured.
I was quite humorous (I thought) and said I needed a strong cup of tea and a lie down to consider it and its implications vis a vis notifying DVLA, arranging to have it delivered back and possible future higher insurance premiums.
On the Friday we settled on the following (not including a few hundred quid's uninsured losses which are a separate issue with a different department.)
£7295 agreed.
I buy back for £1400, not £1600 - van delivered back F-O-C. early next week.
AND (I didn't ask for this) - if within 30 days I decide I've bitten off more than I can chew in repairing etc. they will let me reconsider and get my £1400 back less my cost of delivering it to their chosen local (to me) breakers.
So although it has been a bit long and tortuous I'm okay with this.
The hire van goes back Monday as the insurer has written off the vehicle and given me an interim payment (£5250) already so it is deemed I have resources to buy another van or hire something myself.
Now I shall attend to uninsured losses ...