Has your tap water tds changed from the old to the new house?
What is the tds of the pure from your r/o (before di) compared to your tap water tds?
What is the ratio between waste to pure when processing water?
If you are using more resin but using a similar amount of water, then we could conclude that the tds from the r/o before di has gone up. Has it gone up because the membranes are not working efficiently, or because the tap water has increased tds levels?
How often do you change your prefilters, especially your carbon block one? The carbon block filter removes chlorine from the water. Chlorine eats membrane material. If the service life of the C/B filter is past, then chlorine could be getting into your membrane and destroying it.