I think some of those with kids and/or marriages/relationships under the same roof have a different scenario to consider.
I’m lucky in that sense in that I don’t have that to worry about, but it also means there is only one wage coming in to the house and not two.
With kids I guess the responsibility is on a different level and fair to the guys who’re putting that first. Seriously, I’m glad I don’t have to but for those of you that have, respect.