You don't have to drill a hole in the paddle. You just need to ensure you never completely close the gate valve and stop the water going to waste.
https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/1-2-Inch-BSP-Gate-Valve-Brass-Valve-With-Red-Handle-Female-x-Female/121483348496?hash=item1c48f8ca10:g:Bf8AAOSwuxFY0pOPHere's some membrane specs taken from the Gardiner website when Alex sold membranes;
HF4 Axeon membrane.
• Commercial AXEON HF4 Low-Pressure 4040 40" Membrane
• Optimum input pressure range 80-105psi (5.3-7 BAR)
• Average Rejection ratio - 98% (200ppm down to 4ppm with input water at 100psi and 25°C input water temperature)
• Recommended waste water ratios (product:waste) - 1:1 under 100ppm, 1:2 100-250ppm, 1:3 250-400ppm
• Suitable for standard water input temperatures +10°C
• Nominal 2,500gpd rating - Real world will produce from 2000-4500 litres per 24 hour day
HF5 Axeon membrane
• Commercial AXEON HF5 Ultra Low-Pressure 4040 40" Membrane
• Optimum Input Water Pressure range is 50-100PSI (3.4-7 BAR)
• Suitable for low water temperature inputs below 10°C & generally lower pressure than the HF4 RO Membranes
• Average Rejection ratio - 97% (200ppm down to 6ppm with input water at 100psi and 25°C input water temperature)
• Recommended waste water ratios (product:waste) - 1:1.5 under 100ppm, 1:2 100-250ppm, 1:3 250-400ppm
• Nominal 3,000gpd rating - Real world will produce from 2000-5000 litres per 24 hour day