Don’t blame you at all for not wanting to spend on a new membrane after the amount you already have, but you’re missing my point...
You still need to clear all the calcium that is already in the housing, the softener wont get rid of the calcium thats already ‘upstream’ so to speak, it’ll only clear the calcium of the water going in to the membrane.
Therefore the calicum that is already there will surely continue to degrade said membrane (albeit slowly), whether or not there is a softener in front or not...