whats with the bleeding nose? Is this a medical problem?
I think it's more psycological.
To be honest, we have an excellent work/life balance. She only works for around five or six hours per day; and I always choose a concentrated area of work to begin with.
She grafts hard and finishes around 2.00 pm.
I drop her off and head out to work while she does the house work and other stuff I don't do.
I return home and cook dinner and wash up (sometimes).
She gets all the time off she wants, for example, next weekend she's 'swanning' off to Snodonia to run two thirteen mile runs over two days, (a route-recce for the Snowdon Marathon) and is taking the Friday and Monday off work for travelling and recovery time.
It really does work for us.