its a part of every business , the messer . restaurants get them as do shops ,pubs etc etc . youv got to get rid as pleasantly as you can and grit your teeth ,not let em eat at you
if a messer insults me now thats moved it onto a different level. i get rid of them but make a note in my diary for a few months later to wreak havoc on them - revenge is best served cold . i usually only do it twice a year , this stops me getting bitter