I don't see a mechanical flange on that picture (unless I put mine in back to front). Can't be much thread poking through the tank to screw that to?
Lol i did wonder why everyone said a mechanical flange as the thread is larger than the normal thread but not by a massive amount. Unless like you must have done, put it in back to front, which sounds like a better option.
However with the seal taken off and a tight hole, there is enough thread once fully tightened.
I didnt use any sealant on the inside tank as i was concerned with any affect on the tds of the water. I dont think i had enough ptf on thread and so sprung a leak. But i didnt want to fully drain my tank to sort the issue and so went with plumbers bait and then a sealant to harden when immersion heated up, just to be on safe side.
Checked on it this morning, water temp upto 49 degrees and the seal is holding back half a tonne of water and so problem fixed.