This is where i went wrong. I didnt really use a controller and didnt fo my research effectively on over charging your battery.
As in, my understanding now is that whilst your battery is charging, you dont want the voltage above 14v or 15v cant remember which now. Which damages the cells. Thankfully my digi purefreedom flow controller tells the battery voltage so when its over charging i simply discconnect the solar panal. Ive been running with just the solar panal for just over a yr now and it saw me through winter/dull weather times, esp with adding my additional (if reqired) smaller solar panal. So hoping this winter will be same!