Chaps,,,,,isnt the point of learning esp at uni is not to make quick assumptions, to be open to the possibilities, open minded not a closed book! That is the point i found amusing n what my statement intended!
However in addition this young lady was heavily into goth scene, so a response more suitable from me may have been in line with " you of all people should realise that theres always more to something than first appears" and maybe give a lecture myself perhaps,,