ok, i got all the bits from Toolstation - i used them as they had everything i needed and good prices.
I used a 27inch long like immersion heater (comes with fibre washer)
Immersion heater flange to secure on the threads on the inside of the tank
Immersion box wrench to tighten
10 piece holesaw set
16a plug
One metre of immersion cable
Fly Lead Socket Convertor 13A Lead to 16A Socket
Another fibre washer for the flange
If you put these codes into Toolstation website it'll bring them up so you can see what i used even if you use another store it helps see what i am on about. Codes are - 65632, 36175, 89357, 23014, 80367, 31429, 47166, 73273 - comes to just under £50
I used 16a immersion cable and plugs - the final plug converts to a normal 13a plug. Just means the final cabling going to the immersion is 16a rated and if i ever want to run a 16a socket from my home fusebox i can.
Obviously drill a hole with the biggest holesaw in that kit at the lowest point you can in the tank - the element needs to be off any plastic on the sides or bottom and have a safe distance so it wont melt anything. The kit i bought has a 64mm holesaw - you actually need 65mm so i had to file down the hole a mm to get the immersion through. I bought the kit as its cheap and comes with the drill arbour thing but obviously a 65mm holesaw is easier!
Then sand down the rough bits where you have cut through in the tank to make a good seal for the washers. Put the immersion through the hole and attach it with the flange on the inside of the tank (make sure you have a fibre washer on each side. The main problem is the threads on the immersion heater arent very deep, so when you out it through the tank there is very little threads showing on the inside. What i did was use Boss White (the green eco one) on the threads and on the washers - that really helps stop any leaks getting through and also lubricates it so when you nip the threads you will find it easier to tighten. Obviously use the box immersion wrench to tighten it up on the outside and i used mole grips to stop the flange on the inside spinning.
Because the threads are so limited i did it first time without Boss White but with just the fibre washers it weeped very slightly - the Boss White sorted it when i did it again. I'll post the piccys underneath this from my phone - you will see the Boss White around the immersion (the green paste stuff)
Then i filled the tank to make sure i had no leaks (then emptied it again!) before wiring the cable onto the immersion and plugs.
I ran a heavy duty 13a extension cable from a garage plug and ran the immersion for 2 hours to test, i had an RCD adapter on the garage plug end. The cable never got hot and all the plugs were ok - not overheating at all. The RCD didnt trip so nothing was melting to short etc. Like i say, portables run 3kw immersions all the time on just 13a connections so i am thinking so long as its relative short times you have it plugged in you should be ok. A couple of hours in the morning and tops ups during the day should be fine.
I wouldnt leave it plugged in over night though on a timer just in case it did start to run the cables hot.
Any questions let me know - and obviously if you have a go be careful - water and electrics go bad together!!