well after reading this post this morning i decided to make an effort to finish this and basically i put a piece of gardiner minibore reel hose sleeved over the thin pole hose and jammed it in the end of the plastic pushfit insert,fits really snug, i didnt have a reel to pole hose barbed joiner so for now ive sleeved it again and jubilee clipped it and itdoesnt slow the flow etc then covered it in thick black tape, tried it all and works a treat every time!
only issue i will have is i need some sort of sleeve for the rectus female end as that will be dragging across the floor and wont last long!