Be wary, who and why would be my thought. Who was the other PW guy and why would he randomly knock her door. I sense a bit of BS.
Rain will wash sand out, especially when recently done, look around a parking space and you will see what happens.
As long as they know this from the off that's fine, they will just have to brush it back in. You can't go back after every heavy shower.
Sounds a bit worse from what you say. I assume it was bone dry when you sanded? If not, and I mean dry right down, then the sand wouldn't have settled, then as it dries properly the sand will drop. You're left with it looking like it hasn't been done.
Guessing clay blocks?
Go and resand where needed. Tidy up properly. Get a rubber matted wacka on if needed, this will help get it proper bedded.
Damp down once complete, weed killer ideally but a light spray of water at least.
It may happen again if there's a furrow down hill where the water runs away.