You could do yourself as shouldn't be too hard plus instructions should be with the split charge relay should be fused in my opinion !
Does it not say on the relay itself where live, earth aux battery etc?
http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/CAMPER-VAN-SELF-SWITCHING-VOLTAGE-SENSING-SPLIT-CHARGE-RELAY-12V-30-AMP-/370837856330?pt=UK_Campervan_Caravan_Accessories&hash=item5657a8a04aThis is one I use and i have never had a problem in 3years easy to fit and it's self switching is a good thing as when the main van battery has enough charge you hear the relay click and it switches over to leisure battery, I've never taken the leisure battery out the van to charge. As to your reply you need To run a live wire from van battery to the relay, from relay to leisure battery , from relay to earth but don't forget to fuse live wire. I thought it would of said 12v and earth symbol on the relay though for you to know where wires go? If you know what kind of relay it is try and google for instructions