I used to work the odd Saturday-always picked up at least 5 or 6 new customers or one offs.
I'm trying my hardest to only ever work a 4 day week now.
You can't get back the time with the kids.
OP. Not to be negative but I know of quite a few cases where the dads have had their kids taken by their kids mums.
Lots of money spent by all.
Not a single Dad (I know of) got custody.
In fact, one guy I know spent the best part of 6 figures, years in/out of court, got married to show 'he's settled' worked all the hours to pay for lawyers on top of the debt and he got nothing.
In fact it sent him crazy.
He literally went mental.
Genuinely all the best with your challenge though.
Can't imagine many things worse.