i like it mate very nice,quick question if you had a split relay could you just turn your engine on to power it up or has it gota actually charge up slowly?,i must do about 30 miles a day 1 and a half hour in traffic in the mornings and could be the same when i finish so i think i will be ok with the relay!
You may just be ok IMHO. You may have to stick a normal leisure battery charger on it once a week and then see how it goes. You may even have to only do it every two weeks or even less.
A leisure battery will only accept a trickle charge, it has nothing to do with the alternators charging capacity.
I have a 110 amp leisure battery in my van. The battery when about 75% charged will accept about 6 to 7 amps per hour which reduces as the battery gets 'fuller'.
If your pump draws 3.5 amps and hour and you are actually pumping water for 4 hours, then you will use 14 amps. If you spend 3 hours travelling and your battery is accepting 6 amps, then you will probably nearly fully charge your battery every day (remembering that when my battery is just about fully charged it may only be accepting 1 to 1.5 amps an hour.
Your alternator will be providing enough to charge the leisure battery whether idling in trafic or cruising on the motorway. In fact, from a charging point of view of your leisure battery, it is better to be stuck in traffic.