She is not just a teacher, She is an assistant head teacher
. Yes if it were not for her I would be screwed, she bought us a house, and pays mortgage etc. I am supposed to contribute, but with cars and vans needing sorting out and no work etc I cannot. I think she is ok about it, But i feel guilty, If it were the other way round like it was with my ex wife (nearly) I would not be bothered. But does not feel right. I used to support ex and my family, she did not have to work.