that's crossing the line, bang out of order, not to be tolerated, i really hope you know someone who can help you,an swiftly deal with them, an loose them out at see, these type of people get me going, family is going to far they most know not many men will put up with that police are not worth it as they could dish out enough justice for these people , it has to be kept in house, its personal.
i really hope this is sorted quickly either way you choose.