I had the same problem, couldn't get my head round access till my daughter helped me out to create one as I am a little program eliterate myself.
Sugest that you get some one to help you with access as the programes that you purchase or trial will be just as dificult at first.
Once you have used accsess it will be easy.
I have just mailed 140 past customers (the ones I want work from) last Saturday and already have picked up £900 of work.
It is well worth doing
John