Dazmond you are running your flow far to high that is why you are blowing the connectors off , I cant see how you can get a full days work with a flow that high .
I would buy some 1 mm clarkes welding tips off ebay fit them to your gardiners brush , Then even if your water is quite cold you should be able to set your Cal at 28-30 .
Then set your flow to about the same around 29-31 .
Also because you have been running at such a high flow rate and blowing off connectors off your Pump-Box you could have damaged your fittings change them over otherwise you will be drawing a small amount of air in , hope this helps . Mike