Thanks for that Tosh, (100% correct as usual!), already spoken to a customer who had done a similar thing for her son, she's pointed me in a few different directions and helped me out.. Let's see how it goes...
I know this requires long term thinking, there's no quick fix, but ANYTHING would help as he's going to need tech, house mods, allsorts, just to get by.
I know DOZENS of local windies who would be willing to help out , maybe if we could get all of our custards to put just a couple of pounds in, it's a start. It's just a matter of getting some official recognition and an accountant on board hopefully.
We'll see, imo anything is better than nothing.