Yes got to agree, "kitchen sink marketing " of which i do a fair amount of, and i knew she did only want to chat . i dont mind listening and was happy to do so but it does start getting a little awkward when personal things are bought into the conversation, ie. how they seperated once and then found love again, etc . she did obviously miss him very much, she had a photo and a funeral service card on the pillow on her bed, got to admit i thought that was a sweet touch.
geoff.
ps. Shaun. thunda thunda I here thunda, must b pees i et last sunda.