Ian
sounds like you have a major problem.
its an old scam that when you buy your url sometimes the agent will buy it for you and let you use it. it reality its never yours. if it is in your name its really easy to move. just log in and look for nameservers change and then point them to the new web server.
The scam is that as long as you have that url you will be building value in it and its resale value goes up.
Or, the company is just not talking or helping you as they want you just to drop the url so they can pick it up ans sell it, or dont want you to leave.
The domain is yours and you should be able to move it by the control panel if not get yourself a back up domain now and start to work on it as if cant work the problem out you will get a massive set back with your web profile.
Two things about the Philippines one when the crash happened many companies went to the wall so that might be an issue, second it has lots of IT guys that are let just say not on the right side of the law.
If you cant move the URL forward it to new web space or new domain.
Respect
Hope that helps
Ian Harper
ps. read this,
http://www.streamlinesupport.net/index.php?page=show&id=90go here
http://www.123-reg.co.uk/set up an account and then start the trans.from here you can use their web space or point the url to anywhere you like on the web. as i said all you need is the nameservers. just think of the url and the pages of your site as two different things. they dont have to be at the same place. as long as the url points to the nameserver where your pages are it all works
i reconmend buying your url's here and then you can move when ever you like. all mine are here but my server is not.