Yeh sorry everyone,i just shouldn't expect to much,ok i will join in the relentless banter and humour that abounds this forum.
That's the spirit, Daniel. Actually, this new attitude of yours is something I've been reading about recently. Its called Stoic philosophy and that basically boils down to how to be happy in a World you can't change.
Its about realising that we can't control anything, people, places, things; even our bodies will let us down by getting old and sick. So, instead of trying to 'control' (such as other members on this forum), failing and getting cross about it, what Stoics do is adjust THEMSELVES to the situation, just as you have done.
Well done, Daniel, I did not realise you were a student of philosophy!