cont'
For all of my robust exterior I am a softie at heart and everyone knows this. Anyway, I got through the morning somehow and thankfully the next house I was due to go to was the Manse of the local reverend, and she was in, so over a nice cup of tea, a box of tissues and a hug she sat with me whilst I poured it all out. I felt proper daft, even more so now talking about it, but I try so very very hard to please the people I work for and felt like I'd had a right slap in the face.
Even the lady next door to that now ex-client (a lady I also worked for) said "she'll never find another one like you" and that was from a woman who's hobby was telling me (and the decorator/builder/plumber, delete as applicable) what bits we'd missed.
The only other client I ever had a problem with was that same lady I just mentioned who had said "she'll never find another one like you". She was a nice lady but she had a spotlessly clean show house which - and NO ONE believes me- was a swine to clean, at least dirty, scruffy houses look better for a good clean through. In the end she picked me up on one point too many and, though I have NEVER ever traded one client in for a new one, I vowed that the very next person who asked me to work for them would be a replacement for this lady. And beggar me, if I didn't get someone else within a matter of weeks.
I wrote and told her that, due to the dispute with the neighbour and her broken shelf, I was still embarrassed to be in the neighbourhood and as such I was quitting. I haven't heard since. I wanted to say how hard it was to work for her -the fact that she has had so many cleaners work for her just once or twice (the last lot still working quite happily for her sister apparently) and who she stopped coming, and yet kept me on for over 18 months, says it all really. She must have been pleased or, at the very least, realised I was as good as it was gonna get.
What started out as cleaning a 4 bed house with 3 guest bedrooms and 2 guest bathrooms led to me cleaning for her daughter at her house, and when the daughter divorced I lost that job, but not only that, the daughter moved back home and so that was an extra bedroom to THOROUGHLY clean, same for the guest bathroom, and never once did I mention charging more. I just got on with it.
The person who I went to work for in her place had a house that, on the surface, was very clean, and had previously been using Molly Maids. She said she became very dissatisfied and I was recommended to her by a guy who thinks I am the bees-knees, god love 'im (its all because I'm the only person who agreed not to put a crease in his shirt sleeves, looking at the clothes you'd think I was the only person who agreed to his ironing full-stop, but he's a super guy). That house was absolutly thick with dust behind beds and units etc, and they don't tidy up much, so you always know when I've been in.
These days I am reluctant to work for anyone who has never had a cleaner before (people who have had cleaners have a very realistic expectation I find) and NEVER am I going to clean for anyone who has a super-shiny show home. Once bitten, twice shy.
Sorry for long post, and thanks for your question
Bertie