Will try the Rectus 21 fittings as i have bought a ton of them now, will try not to drag them at all now, might even get a holster like nath said, does my head in having to keep picking it up all the time.
Worst case i will get the Rectus 26 further down the line if they are better, and il stop disconnecting the pole hose from main hose as much as i have been doing.
Cheers for advice all!