Im very close to employing now and i read all these employing posts with interest. I think its just as important to view your abailties as an employer, and it is to look at the skills of your employee.
I think quite often (just my opinion) that a lot of the times these bad experiences are down to bad interview technique, bad training, bad recruitment in general. I think you really have to look at yourself when advertising for a job. Think to yourself, what sort of job am i offering? How can i make them care about the job? How can I keep the employee interested, engaged.
Just having the attitude of 'oh they are lucky to have a job' is not enough if you want competent, loyal staff.
Like i say, i dont employ anyone yet, but this is the way i see it