I'm a bit confused with what you are asking.
Your r/o choice is dependant on the amount of water you use a day. So if you use 500 litres of pure, then a 50GPD r/o won't be sufficient.
We started with a 450GPD r/o processing water into the IBC tank and transferring to the vans as required. That was sufficient for the 2 of us - I filled up in the evening and son filled up in the morning. As he only worked 4 days a week it gave us a little to play with. We also started the week with full vans and a full IBC tank. By the time Friday came in the winter, it was a "take what you need for the day" rule.
The r/o operation was controlled by a solenoid valve and float switch in the tank, so it switched itself on and off with no human input, other than to flush the membranes from time to time. The r/o had a restrictor which was a 3 to 1 ratio - 3 waste to 1 pure.
We upgraded the r/o to a 4040 last year as the r/o wouldn't keep up with the needs of a third user. The 4040 produces about 120 litres of pure an hour with a ratio of 1 to 1 - 1 waste to 1 pure. The r/o is controlled by the same solenoid valve and again the only attention it gets is prefilter changes and regular flushing.
Our water tds at the tap is around 120 -125 ppm and after r/o 2-3. That water is then polished off after the r/o so is stored pure in the IBC tank. This means that we don't have to carry a di vessel in each van. This sytem has worked like this for the last 7 years.