,little does she know i probably earn more than her and her hubby put together snobby cow
You're being snobby straight back in pointing out that you may earn more than both of 'em put together!
But we had a post about this some time ago where a member was going to use a company who would do the 'Direct Debit' thing for you; but they obviously took a slice of the payment. I didn't think it sounded like a good idea, but this guy was one of those profeshunal window cleaners (I'm sure you know what I mean) and he was certain that this was a good idea.
But I couldn't see why he just didn't use standing orders, because the money just automatically goes from the customer's bank to his at a set frequency, just the same as a direct debit. The only difference was that if he increased his prices (which he would have to get prior agreement from the customer to do so), he then could go through the Direct Debit company (who take a slice each payment each month) and ask them to do the administration to increase the prices.
With a standing order you would ask your customer to make contact with their bank (or use the easier method of on-line banking) to increase the payment.
I really couldn't see what the big deal was about direct debits, especially when you have to pay a percentage to another business.